A 30 day habit stacking challenge.
People are often looking for rapid transformation and instant success. They want to “get shredded before summer” when it’s only 30 days away or “lose weight before their wedding” when it’s happening next week. What they often fail to realize is that small habits and little choices are literally transforming us everyday.
Here’s an interesting statistic, if you can improve by just 1% every day for an entire year you’ll be 37% better by the end of the year.
If you get 1% worse you’ll middle down to essentially zero.
That’s why it’s so important to focus on long-term goals and develop the habits that will move you in the right direction. No matter how small they may seem on a day to day basis, they hold tremendous potential to positively impact your life. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, consistent imperfection trumps inconsistent perfection any day of the week.
This challenge focuses on a powerful principle called “Habit Stacking”.
First you identify a habit that you currently have. Then you identify a new habit that you want to have and perform it directly before, during, or after your regular behaviour.
You can do this with any existing habit, brushing your teeth for example. For this challenge we'll try use a negative behaviour as our trigger (If you can't think of one, choose any habit).
Here are three unhealthy habits you might list as triggers:
Endlessly scrolling Instagram.
Frequently eating candy.
Binge watching Netflix.
And here’s three healthy habits that you might want in your life:
Increased movement.
Eating more vegetables.
Setting time aside for formal meditation.
Now remember, habits are behaviours that you perform consistently. If you only watch Netflix once per month it wouldn’t be considered a habit. Look for behaviours that you do each and every day.
Ok, we’ve listed a few habits; it’s time to “stack” them. For instance, we might decide to complete 5 minutes of movement after we open Instagram. Or we might decide to do 10 minutes of meditation between each Netflix episode that we watch. Alternatively, we might decide to eat some vegetables before eating candy.
Here’s the formulas:
After [current negative habit] I will [new habit].
Before [current negative habit] I will [new habit].
During [current negative habit] I will [new habit].
Get it? I thought so.
In an attempt to simplify the profound complexities of behavioural science let’s just look at one principle and how it relates to stacking habits.
There is a scientific phenomenon called synaptic pruning. Rather than try and explain the details around synapses and neurons let’s consider that we all have certain skills. These skills are like roads that have been paved in our brain. As we age our brain lays down more asphalt, turning roads into highways and allowing us to express our skills with increased ease and expertise. These skills become reflexes and are often performed automatically.
Alternatively, the older we get, the harder it is to pave new roads and develop new skills. This is due to synaptic pruning. Our brains essentially have less “asphalt” to produce new “roads” as we age.
We all have “roads” in our brains that we are “driving” down automatically. For example, you're likely very efficient at remembering to take a shower everyday or turn on your morning cup of coffee and it’s unlikely that you have to motivate yourself to do it.
When it comes to building new habits you can use this to your advantage. Rather than trying to motivate yourself to perform a new behaviour at a particular time or place, you simply use your previous behaviour as the trigger to perform the new habit. And BAM! Now you no longer have to remind yourself to fulfill the new behaviour.
Better yet, we’re not even asking you to give up your bad behaviours, rather just “stacking” good behaviours around them. How awesome is that?!
This challenge is scored in three areas:
1) Begin with the end in mind
2) Daily habit stacking in practice
3) Community engagement
1. Set a 15 minute clock and write down an outcome that you would like to achieve in your life in the next 6-12 months.
2. Then write down how you failed to achieve it. Include as much detail as possible. What got in your way? What did you fail to do each day? What limited you in terms of resources or your environment?
3. Now focus on what you have control of and write down the habit that you are committed to doing each day to create the momentum that’s needed to arrive at your goal in the next 6-12 months. Remember, your habit doesn’t have to be all inspiring to start, it just needs to be done consistently to build the momentum that’s needed for more difficult habits in the future.
4. Now use the formulas below and stack that habit with one of the negative behaviours that you determined would get in the way of your goal. If you don't have any negative habits feel free to stack it on any habit.
5. Share your stacked habit with the group on FB or on the App.
Points: (One time)
24pts
1. Complete your new habit each day. Each time you complete the new habit you’ll score points. You’ll get 2 pts for 5 minutes of new behaviour, 4 pts for 10 minutes, and 6 pts for 15+ minutes.
Points: (Daily)
5 minutes = 2 Pts
10 minutes = 4 Pts
15+ minutes = 6 Pts
1. Each day post a picture or video of yourself completing the new habit.
2. Comment on someone else's picture and commend them.
Completion = 2 Pts
Here's the link to our Facebook Group
Yes. You must commit at least 15 minutes or more to this task in order to get your points.
Yes! The negative behaviour is your trigger and is only useful in reminding you to perform your positive behaviour. If you can perform your positive behaviour without your negative one, you’ll be in an even better place at the end of this. The long-term intent is to replace the negative behaviour with the positive one.
No. If your new habit only takes a moment to complete then you can do additional work towards that habit by taking time to learn why that habit will make a positive difference in your life. You can do this by reading about it, researching scientific journals, watching educational videos, talking to your coach, or listening to audiobooks and podcasts. You can do this for up to 15 minutes if you like to ensure you get all your points each day.
Yes. If you’re finding your original habit stack too easy, feel free to stack an additional behaviour on top of it. Here’s an example: After I eat chocolate I will do 5 minutes of movement >>> After I eat chocolate I will do 5 minutes of movement + 10 minutes of meal prep.
Yes. You can use any habit you want to stack it on but the focus was to stack it on a negative habit with hopes that you might replace it with time.
Pro tip #1: Begin with the end in mind. Project yourself even further into the future, lying on your deathbed, with only moments left in your life. What’s important to you now that you’re facing death? Having clarity on what’s important to you in the long-term will help you determine your short-term goals.
Pro tip #2: Design your environment so that it’s easy to achieve your good behaviours and difficult to indulge in your bad behaviours. To some degree, we are all victims of our environment. I wouldn’t go so far as to say that our environment determines our destiny but a negative environment plays a pivotal role in shaping our decisions which ultimately determine where we end up in life. Let’s face it, you might be able to overpower your environment temporarily but eventually your willpower dwindles. Set yourself up for success by providing the best environment that you can. For example, if you want to meditate between Netflix episodes, set up a meditation pillow, download a guided bodyscan, and place a scented candle out prior to starting your first episode. Now you’re all set and ready to go and you’ll find it much easier to take a little break between episodes. I wrote an article about the importance of changing your surroundings, click here to read it.
Pro tip #3: Optimize for getting started, not that finish line. Ensure your new habit is so easy to achieve that you are guaranteed to succeed. We often get too ambitious when setting out changes in behaviour, attempting an entirely contrasting diet or jumping right into high intensity exercise for example, only to give up shortly after starting. If you’ve fallen victim to this tendency in the past don’t do it again here. In fact, I'm recommending that you take the exact approach. What is the simplest, easiest habit that you're certain you’ll achieve? Start with that, put in the reps day after day and build from there.
Pro tip #4: The best way to change long-term behaviour is short-term feedback. You should reward yourself and the new behaviour as quickly as possible. Do this by staying consistent in logging your scores in the app directly after you complete your new behaviour. This will release a little dose of some neurotransmitters, making you feel good in that moment and strengthening the new habit over time.